June 22nd, 2010 
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How far do you go in dressing for yourself or for your S/O ??
(Nothing too weird just a little different) I am willing to do what makes him happy. Does that make me weak?
Relationships are all about compromise, give and take, negotiation, etc. In other words, it's not simply a matter of either you NEVER wear what he likes or you always do. I'll give you some examples from my marriage:
1. My wife is of German ancestry (full blooded) and I'm a southern boy. She likes GERMAN food and I like greens, corn bread, grits, cured ham, biscuits, black eyed peas, etc. You can imagine MY JOY when she's got a hankering for her German food. And conversely you can imagine her joy when I want some sweet tater pie. So, we compromise. We eat generic food a lot; e.g., Mexican, Italian, and fast food, and we mix it up on her getting the foods she likes and I get the foods I like.
2. We have also experience the same problem you have, only with a twist. My wife does not like sexy lingerie. For instance, she likes to wear the biggest, ugliest granny panties that I've ever seen. Yousa! She says that they are comfortable. Okay.... To me it is the height of sexiness to know that she's wearing sexy lingerie ALL DAY LONG and then to fantasize about taking them off before we go to bed. Yum. But IF she agrees to wear it then it's ONLY long enough to have sex. It's like 10 or 15 minutes and wham! Oh well.
The funny thing is this. I said there's a twist in our relationship and it's this: I've ALWAYS had a lingerie fetish. That means that I BOTH love women in sexy lingerie AND I love wearing it myself. So, imagine it. I own about 100 pairs of SEXY panties in every style popular today and her drawer is FULL of granny panties. LOL. She used to HATE for me to wear women's underwear. HATE IT! She thought I was gay, etc. But now, she's reasonably cool with it. In fact, we are planning a night when we both wear sexy panties and pantyhose and get jiggy. I can't wait!
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Do whatever you feel comfortable with. You don’t have to live for everyone else’s approval; just be yourself and let those you care about be the most important to you, not a load of strangers on Yahoo.
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No that makes you a good mate!
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Yes…wear what he wants to see. It’s going to come off anyway so what does it matter? Have fun, be adventurous, and allow some excitement.
Hon…nothing makes you weak. You are not defined by what I say or anyone else here says. You are a unique individual. Celebrate YOU and dare to be different!!!!
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As long as you aren’t doing something that makes you uncomfortable, you’re not doing anything wrong. It’s your choice.
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well usually lingerie is for male pleasure purposes, but if your not comfortable with something that he wants you to wear…then just dont wear it.
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no it does not make you weak. im tryna get my question answered too it something like that do you mind helping me?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AsHqtSnktJ4gmBsUgY38mEzsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080616121246AAELdru
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No, doing different things in bed spices up your sex life. It is healthy to explore different thing and have fun with sex. However never do things that makes you uncomfortable. For a women if you are not comfortable in bed then you could hinder your own climax and every women knows that’s not fun!
If you feel like you want to dominate more in bed try hand cuffs that reverses the role and puts you more in charge of what goes on.
Good luck!
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Go for it what goes on in your home is your business. Just stop when you don’t feel comfortable
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the sound of a guy telling u what to wear to bed is a little creepy for most… but if u actually asked a guy what he would prefer, he will tell you NOTHING, and he absolutely means it! yea it turns them on but come on, shorts turn them on too! so the key to intimate lingerie is how YOU feel in them. if you love them, ur going to feel confortable in them and maybe do a little sexy dance for him, or something else. he in turn will love it. so it all has to do with how u feel. if u feel comfortable, it will be noticeable and it makes alll the difference when it comes to sex. me personally, i just wear a matching set, or something cute like boy bottom underwear with a tank. but if u really wanna blow his away (no pun intended), just get urself a pair of high sexy stilettos and viola!!!
enjoy!
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pleasing each other is part of what makes relationships work
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Relationships are all about compromise, give and take, negotiation, etc. In other words, it’s not simply a matter of either you NEVER wear what he likes or you always do. I’ll give you some examples from my marriage:
1. My wife is of German ancestry (full blooded) and I’m a southern boy. She likes GERMAN food and I like greens, corn bread, grits, cured ham, biscuits, black eyed peas, etc. You can imagine MY JOY when she’s got a hankering for her German food. And conversely you can imagine her joy when I want some sweet tater pie. So, we compromise. We eat generic food a lot; e.g., Mexican, Italian, and fast food, and we mix it up on her getting the foods she likes and I get the foods I like.
2. We have also experience the same problem you have, only with a twist. My wife does not like sexy lingerie. For instance, she likes to wear the biggest, ugliest granny panties that I’ve ever seen. Yousa! She says that they are comfortable. Okay…. To me it is the height of sexiness to know that she’s wearing sexy lingerie ALL DAY LONG and then to fantasize about taking them off before we go to bed. Yum. But IF she agrees to wear it then it’s ONLY long enough to have sex. It’s like 10 or 15 minutes and wham! Oh well.
The funny thing is this. I said there’s a twist in our relationship and it’s this: I’ve ALWAYS had a lingerie fetish. That means that I BOTH love women in sexy lingerie AND I love wearing it myself. So, imagine it. I own about 100 pairs of SEXY panties in every style popular today and her drawer is FULL of granny panties. LOL. She used to HATE for me to wear women’s underwear. HATE IT! She thought I was gay, etc. But now, she’s reasonably cool with it. In fact, we are planning a night when we both wear sexy panties and pantyhose and get jiggy. I can’t wait!
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